by toby | Dec 21, 2017 | Author Coaching
Here are five ways to celebrate the holidays when you’re in grief and have lost a loved one. Celebrating might seem impossible when you’re in grief, and yet these “special” days come whether we want them to or not, and must be endured. There’s an empty...
by toby | Nov 24, 2017 | Author Coaching
Creating new traditions is something we can do at any time, but it happens of necessity when something major changes in life: a death, a divorce, a big move, a job change, a new marriage, the birth of a child. This year, I have gone through five of the six (and not...
by toby | Aug 19, 2017 | Author Coaching
Happiness is an inside job, even when your home is a tropical island paradise. Extreme beauty can actually distort perspective. Every other place is then seen through rainbow-tinted spectacles. I’ve been fortunate by design, spending the majority of my life in...
by toby | May 21, 2017 | Author Coaching, Traveling
Lessons continue in our RV adventure. Every time we take out our tiny house on wheels, something new is learned. ‘Always check the weather and plan accordingly’ was the next slap upside the head. Eight years ago, when our daughter was in college at Humboldt State,...
by toby | May 13, 2017 | Author Coaching
The Russian River has moods. Originally known by the Southern Pomo Native Americans of the area as “east water” Ashokawna, or “big water” Bidapte, in the short time I’ve lived here I’ve come to feel about the river like I did about Maui’s ocean: just...
by toby | Apr 22, 2017 | Author Coaching
On the road again! We’re traveling in a whole new way now that we’ve relocated (temporarily) to California. I’ve long had a thirst for the road. I’m not sure if it’s a culmination of my very early life with my parents, living in a van in the sixties and seventies, or...